Relationships nowadays, are not how they were many years ago. Nowadays, people stay together for money, wealth, cars, or just looks. Relationships have always been difficult, because trying to get along with someone that has different opinions and ideas than you, is quite a challenge. What makes a relationship work is love and understanding. In order to have a relationship that works, people need to be more understanding and more kind. When love knocks you down, there is nothing else you want to do than stay with the person you love and give him or her everything.  Relationships should be based on love , but not only. Love after many years fades away and the only thing that remains is trust, understanding and respect.

A Healthy Relationship it's all about getting along. There are people who never fight and love each other, and there are others that have serious fights but are still mad for each other. Each one has it's own way of solving problems but it' the way we change or at least try to make things work. They say all is fair in love and war, and in some percent it is. We make all kinds of mistakes when we love, we renounce at our pride for love, we let ourselves be embarrassed , we are jealous for nothing, but all these things make complete a relationship. A Healthy Relationship includes arguments as well as good moments. There isn't a happy relationship that doesn't have arguments now and then. It's normal to fight, but just not exaggerate.

In a relationship, the one that has made a mistake has to have the guts to recognize and say I' sorry. It's not a game and it's not about who stands up tall and who loses. Relationships are about two becoming one, and so, why be hardheaded when you know you are wrong?  A Healthy Relationship means getting along on all levels. For example it's great to have someone to understand you, someone with whom you can talk about anything, but also, passion and great sex are very important parts of a relationship. When two people commit to each other, they should respect their vows. Why? Because respect is essential. Many couples nowadays, swear at each other talk badly, all these things will eventually make you see you do not belong with each other.

Healthy Relationships are those when people are happy , truly happy. Even though they fight and mess up, if the feeling of joy or happiness exists, then nothing else matters. Everyone is searching for their soul mate, if it exists, but we all like to think that somewhere, that special person destined for us is waiting to find us. In life, we meet all kinds of people, and only by knowing someone and through disappointments you can figure out what you want from the person beside you. As we grow older we become more and more picky, but if we have found love, we should hold on to it, because it's the best feeling a person could have.